God is not in the whirlwind, not in blustering and show, scripture teaches us. God is in the breeze, in the very atmosphere around us, in the little things that shape our lives. God is in the contradictions that assail us, in the circumstances that challenge us, in the attitudes that impel us, in the motives that drive us, in the life goals that demonstrate our real aspirations, in the burdens that wear us down, in the actions that give witness to the values in our hearts. God is in the stuff of life, not in the airy-fairy of fertile imaginations bent on the pursuit of the preternatural. God is where we are, including in the very weaknesses that vie for our souls.

God is not a mystery to be sought in strange places and arcane ways. God is a mystery to be discovered within us and around us, and savored.

-from “O Wonder of Wonders,” by joan Chittister in How can I find God?, ed. James Martin, S. J. (Triumph Books)

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Who knew that I’d be able to say anything meaningful with 140 characters? That’s all you get on Twitter. Many times I’ll see a quote or want to do a shout out and post it to Twitter and -14 blinks back at me. I have used too many words, filling empty space.

I have to stop and think: how do I get to the heart of the matter? This absolutely gives me pause —how do you get to the heart of the matter, quicker, and in up tempo? What I love about Twitter is it is teaching me to be succinct in announcing to the world what is important in that 140-character moment.

I joined Twitter on March 9, 2008. I stopped using Twitter shortly after because I didn’t find it useful. I had nothing to say to the world at large about my every thought and movement. It felt a bit like micro-blogging and well, I am just not that interesting or frankly, interested. And yet, I know our students are keenly connected to social media and so connecting with students on Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, and FourSquare became interesting and important. So my tweeting journey renewed with commitment.

Soon I learned that I was among a very small group of Chief Student Affairs Officers who “tweeted” with their students. Teri Bump, Vice President for University Relations & Student Development with American College Communities sent me a direct message (dcissypetty) and let me know that there were less than 15 in the country currently using this social media. She invited me to be on a panel at the NASPA conference in March, 2011. Kenn Elmore, @deanelmore tweets from Boston College and has quite a robust following! It’s fun to follow Student Affairs colleagues and see how they are making a difference with their students.

I love building the connection with my “tweeties”, as I fondly call my students on Twitter. It is and has always been about relationships. So I tweet and shout out about @Loyola_NOLA and @studentaffairs, and have daily interactions with Vogue_Vein, an extraordinary RA… Jaibee, an involved student whose smile is contagious… Whit-or Miss, who I miss being at @Loyola_NOLA but she’s thriving at Xavier… and lexi-melt, who writes late in the night about studying… and erlswirl, who is on my @studentaffairs team and doing amazing AD work.

You see, they laugh with me (and likely at me) about “tweeting.” But I love knowing them and sharing with them in all the ways that they communicate—whether it’s in person in the dining hall, or tweeting to meet for coffee at CC’s, or seeing them at a university function. It’s all about the 140 shout out in real time on Twitter or a real time hello hug in the Danna Center. So join me… @cissypetty and coffee’s on me!

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the greatness of a community is most accurately measured by the compassionate actions of its members, a heart of grace, and a soul generated by love.

-Coretta Scott King

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the sun, with all those planets revolving around it and dependent on it, can still ripen a bunch of grapes as if it had nothing else in the universe to do.

-Galileo Galilei

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it is not a question of whether you “have what it takes,” but of whether you take the gifts you have–they are plenteous–and share them with all the world.

-Neale Donald Walsch, Tomorrow’s God

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encouragement can be a life saver. haven’t we all had those moments when the right words at the right time saved us from driving down the wrong road? remember to remind people what they’re doing right today. tell them, “you’re on the ball, keep rolling.”

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instead of looking for love, give it; constantly renew it in yourself and you will always feel its presence within you. it will always be there smiling at you, gazing on you kindly.

-Omraam Mikhael Aivanhov

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i offer you this prayer for all difficult relationships in our lives; god, grant me the serenity to accept the people i cannot change, the courage to change the person i can, and the wisdom to know that person is me.

-mary manin morrisey

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we all step onto the path of love out of need, but at a certain point need can be destructive, because it is born of lack and fear. need must be balanced with two other ingredients—willingness to be transformed and support in the transformation.need, willingness, support.All of these are necessary if one is to step onto the path of love.

-Deepak Chopra

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loss makes artists of us all as we weave new patterns in the fabric of our lives.

-Greta W. Crosby

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